The Art of Being Single

short note:

been blog-hopping this morning until i saw this post which is rather interesting. credits to Zues, credits credits to chinheong for the wonderful post. credits credits credits to the original creator of this post, haha

basically i got no comment on the contents below, but i do disagree with some of the opinions based on my past experiences...have a go reading it.

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The Art of Contentment
For most of us, being single will be more of a phase than a final destination. This is the best place to practice the art of contentment. Someday, I’m sure most of us will fall in love and get married. But the thing is, love will always be tested. Someone more handsome,beautiful, more charming, richer, funnier, sweeter would come along. If you have not practiced the art of contentment as a single person, chances are you would be tempted to want that and not cherish your chosen one. Practicing the Art of Contentment as a single person means that you take what life gives you, good or bad, you’re willing to see it through. It means you don’t walk away every time things get tough because it builds in you patience, perseverance, understanding and a hundred different virtues that people in a hurry will never have. Being single means you would find how it feels to be alone thus, allowing you to cherish every moment you spend with your chosen one. The art of contentment means you wouldn’t mind if life had to make you wait for so long to find the love of your life, because you know that the waiting would only make the finding much sweeter.



A Time to Know Yourself Better
Being single is a time of your life when you can get to know yourself better. You can pursue different interest and passions without having to ask another person’s approval. It is a phase when you can keep focus on other things, discover your potentials and talents, and see yourself become more than what you expect to be. Allow yourself to surprise you. Stop wasting precious energy trying to figure out why you’re still romantically unattached. It’s all in the mind. Take the time to go see your friends, spend time with your family, do charity work and you will realize that you are not, and never for one moment, was alone. Try to get to know yourself first before you try to get to know other people. To be truly loved means to be known and accepted for who you are. How do you expect other people to know you and to love you, when you don’t know who and what you really are?



A Choice Between Good and Best
Sometimes the dilemmas we face are not between what is absolutely bad and absolutely good. Sometimes, it’s between good and best. Treat this stage of your life as a phase to evaluate who is good for you and who is best for you. Sometimes, you won’t hear music, or feel magic to know who’s best for you. The heart just knows and it doesn’t need any romantically charged scenario to decide on the matter. Trust in your heart, and trust that time will eventually lead you to, not to the perfect partner, but to the most suitable partner for you. Being single is a phase of life that we need to be thankful for, because being single means our hearts have yet to choose the best one for us.



Take Your Time, The World Will Wait
Being married doesn’t guarantee that it will make your life happy. It doesn’t guarantee anything at all. Sometimes, it only brings two miserable people together only to make their life even more miserable. Without the right intention, the emotional maturity, financial security and of course, unwavering love, you’re better off unattached.



Living Life
Don’t put your life on hold for Mr. and Mrs. Right but don’t let it waste away with Mr.or Mrs. Wrong. Life is about things that you do and happen to you everyday. It’s not about the things that could have happened but never did, or things that you think would happen in the future. Live life now. Live it to the fullest and stop beating yourself up, trying to be perfect on a Saturday night date. Allow life to surprise you with it’s most wonderful blessings.

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now baru lv2

yes..i know i'm suppose to study now

Siao liao la(hp)

If u can understand tis, ur god

one word...

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FAT

ecp1026 tut 7

GRAPH

#include < stdio.h >

#define NUMPLACE 3
#define NOP -1.0

//1-D array to keep track of the place names

char places [NUMPLACE] = {'A','B','C'};

//2-D array for the adjacency matrix representation

float roads [NUMPLACE] [NUMPLACE] = {
{ 0.0, 3.5, NOP},
{ 3.2, 0.0, 2.8},
{ 3.1, NOP, 0.0},
};

int main(void)
{
int from;
int to;
char origin, dest;

printf("From>>");

//Obtain the origin s place name from the user and find index
//associated with the place name

scanf("%c", &origin);

for(from = 0; from < NUMPLACE; from++)
if(places[from]==origin) break;

getchar();

printf("To>>");

//Obtain the destination s place name from the user and find index
//associated with the place name

scanf("%c", &dest);

for(to = 0; to < NUMPLACE; to++)
if(places[to] == dest) break;

printf("From %c to %c ", places[from],places[to]);

//Obtain the distance from the adjacency matrix.
//If there s no path, then display No direct road.

if((roads[from][to])!=NOP)
printf("it is %2.1f km\n", roads[from][to]);
else
printf(": no direct road. \n");


return(0);
}

SET

typedef unsigned int Set;

#define SETSIZE 8

void printSet(Set s)
{
int j;
printf("{ ");
for (j=0; j< SETSIZE; j++)
if ((1<< j)&s)
printf("%d ",j);
printf("}\n");
}

int main()
{
Set a, b;
a=(1<<1)|(1<<2)|(1<<3)|(1<<4);
b=(1<<4)|(1<<5)|(1<<6);

printf("a= ");
printSet(a);

printf("b= ");
printSet(b);

printf("a union b = ");
printSet(a|b);

printf("a intersection b = ");
printSet(a&b);

printf("inset 5 into a.\n");
a = (1<<5)|a;

printf("is 3 an element of b?\n");
if ((1<<3)&b)
printf("yes\n");
else
printf("no\n");

return 0;
}

Ching ming(hp)

Hope everyone went through their ching ming smoothly =)

reminder : march 14th, chinese 2nd month 18th day

short note:

yoohoo~~ tomorrow goin genting~

wishing a happy birthday to my dear sis and mr.Han xD

was suppose to post this 10 days ago...but delay til now, blek

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lighting failed. was about to rain

I got an early call in the morning from my mom to remind me that today's my chinese birthday. I'm always forgetful about my chinese birth date, cause my family doesn't celebrate at all, and also..just so happens on that date itself my 婆婆 (popo, nenek, grandma) went to another world..

But of course..my mom asked me to try find any temple around so that at least I can pay respect to my 婆婆 la, as what we'll normally do when we're in hometown. Back in Melaka I won't take these kind of offerings/praying/paying respect to our ancestors thing. Sure we might skip a couple of times, feeling lazy to go, stomachache last minute, upon in Cyberjaya here...I feel really down unable to follow my mom for visiting. So I started having random thoughts, and have myself an expedition trip to search for any nearby temple!!







Of course...I know where it is AFTER I found that area la...I have to ask various people for directions on how to go, following vehicles in hope they'll pass by any at all, until I went too deep into the old Seri Kembangan area, that time ah...cannot liao, must ask for directions.


got this kind fella to give me some guidance

EVEN WITH ALL THOSE DIRECTIONS I'M STILL LOST. All I know it's somewhere on top of a hill so I should try my luck roaming around high. Didn't know it was that easy if you just look up the mountain instead ><


huah!! finally reached my destination!


but sadly..sudah tutup, i arrived at 4.30pm (not a wonder la tutup liao, *slaps myself*)


but anyhow i still did some 拜拜(bai4bai4, praying) outside before i left

Nonetheless I think I'm ok now..Next year I probably have to try in the early morning than this late all the time. Got some random photos around too =D


just about to rain after reaching here


by just keep following local people where they're going, i learnt a new road!! nasib betul


shortcut to prevent all the jams in between Serdang and Seri Kembangan


woo~ semakin lebat liao, cannot snap photos anymore ><

婆婆 ar..if you can read this, just wanna let u know we're doing very fine here.
公公 is still as strong as ever! last update he's still mixing wit his gang of kaki's
in tat same coffee shop. as for us new generation..?? we're doing great! this year
we even took a photo with 公公 as a remembrance, cool huh? well..i know you'll be
looking out for us from above, rest assured we won't let you down. =)